Tips for Improving Your Sex Life
Posted by dupontbglad on January 17, 2015
Although there are people in this world that claim that sex isn’t an important component of their relationship, it is. As one of the most fundamental and basic human needs, each person requires the opportunity to be intimate with their significant other on a regular basis. Whether you are going through a rough patch in your relationship or if your significant other just doesn’t seem interested in sex, below are some tips that you can use to help improve the intimate aspect of your relationship.
Tip 1: Quality Time
The first thing to take into consideration is the fact that maybe you two aren’t spending as much time together as you once were. If you are able to book a slot for quality time with each other, it will give you the ability to reconnect. Consider spending about 10-15 minutes to talk about sex and what you want out of it. You can then consider going out to dinner and coming home to a nice bottle of wine.
Tip 2: Choose a Sex Goal
The majority of people in the world like working towards something so that they can say they achieved it. With that being said, you may want to consider developing a sex goal for you and your partner. Ask your partner to do something to you that you have always wanted done, but they’ve never had the courage to do. Try to make the goals positive, though, as negative goals can worsen a relationship and cause arguments.
Tip 3: Loving Yourself
The first step to making sure that you have the best sex possible is to love your body and let your partner know that you love your body as well. Develop a list of all of your physical traits that you adore. This will stay in your partners mind and they will want to figure out why it is that you like these specific parts of your body. The more that you appreciate yourself, the more you will be desired.
Tip 4: Wearing Something Cute
Men don’t always fall for the over-the-top lingerie that you see in the movies. In fact, the majority of men simply like their significant others to be wearing one of their t-shirts or something simple to bed. Instead of focussing on becoming a visual sex goddess, consider some classy yet delicate lingerie or a nice sleepshirt to bed to help show your partner that you’re both worth it and appreciated.